“I would never cloth diaper,” A friend of mine scoffed beside me.
We sat awkwardly at a small table, attending a baby shower of an acquaintance.
“It’s just gross,” she stuck out her tongue and made a face. I was slightly taken aback at the judgmental tone in her voice. She continued, “They are kind of like that anyway; all earth-friendly and whatever. You know the type?”
I nodded silently, my eyes distant and falling on the mother to be; off in a corner, chatting happily with another gal. I imagined her folding a large square thin sheet of some organic cotton material, diaper pins everywhere, handling poop and a screaming baby. Yuck.
Fast forward three years and I am sitting at a computer desk, a few months pregnant, and my gift registry on the screen in front of me. Concentrated, I sifted through endless blogs, reviews and lists for what to add. I was obsessed and my main obsession was cloth diapering. I was shocked that my preconceived notions and snap judgements couldn’t be more wrong. I would save thousands? It’s not that hard? There’s cute colors?
I read through countless blogs: Cloth Diapering 101, Cloth Diapering for Beginners, Everything You Need to Know About Cloth Diapering etc. etc.; every Pinterest blog and article I could find. I watched hour long videos on all the different types in my spare time, I started a few Google docs on my game plan and took notes. Finally, I added a few to my registry.
I was told: “I’ll give you two weeks and you’ll give that up.” “Yeah right, my friend tried that and it didn’t work out. She did the research too.” “You’re not cloth diapering while I’m there visiting!”
In the end, cloth diapering was a piece of cake. I truly believe if more people knew how to cloth diaper, than most would do it!
CLOTH DIAPERS 101, THE COMPLETE GUIDE FOR BEGINNERS
While I was researching, I was frustrated that everything wasn’t in one place. Here, I want to change that. We’re going to go over the basics: Cloth Diapering 101. I’ll also let you know what system worked for me and why I recommend it.
The 5 types of cloth diaper “systems”
1. DIAPER COVERS (Shell)
Popular Brands: Blueberry, Thirsties, Flip, Alva, Rumparooz
Notes: Diaper covers are a “shell” with what is called “PUL”: water resistant fabric. Diaper covers require any one of the cloth diaper “guts” from the section below and are a two piece system.
My Preference: Blueberry Capri & Alva. This system is my absolute preference because it’s the least expensive and most flexible. I have tried out all the popular diaper cover brands and Blueberry was the best (hands down) when I used fitted diapers (and the cover over them). I never had a leak! As Mae got older and started eating solids, I switched out of fitteds and into prefolds used as an insert. I was surprised that with this method, I actually preferred the $3.80 Alva Baby Diaper cover compared to the $19.95 Blueberry cover!
2. POCKET DIAPERS
Popular Brands: Rumparooz, Alva Baby, BumGenious, Thirsties
Notes: Pocket diapers usually come with an insert you slide in. But you can buy your own inserts or prefolds to stuff inside. A pocket diaper works like a pillowcase: there is an opening on one end and you stuff the insert inside.
My Preference: Alva Baby. I use pocket diapers exclusively for night time. I like the flexibility of being able to stuff extra padding in there because at three months old, Mae was sleeping through the night twelve hours plus! The Alva Baby diapers do come with their own inserts but most people buy their own because theirs are a little on the flimsy side. For night time, I use Blueberry Bamboo + a Blueberry Capri insert. Pocket diapers seem to be one of the most popular diaper systems. I decided to do covers + prefolds as an insert rather than pockets because pockets are like an AIO where you’d have to buy as many pocket diapers as diaper changes (24 +) for 2- 3 days (if you launder every other day). With covers, I just have to buy 8 covers and 24 inserts and I’m good to go.
3. ALL IN ONE (AIO)
Popular Brands: BumGenious, Blueberry, Thirsties
Notes: All in ones or AIOs are the premium diaper. There are absolutely no steps: no stuffing or inserts. AIOS are one piece just like disposables. They are usually more expensive than other cloth diaper systems (but still cheaper than disposables!) and take longer to dry. This system can be really nice for babysitters, relatives and your significant other who wants a quick diaper change without any other step with the diaper.
My Preference: BumGenious Freetime. I loved the idea of the AIO but they take a day to dry which means more diapers need to be purchased and they are very pricey! I purchased the Freetime and felt like it was a beautiful, fancy diaper that I didn’t want to get dirty!
4. HYBRID // ALL IN TWO (AI2)
Popular Brands: GroVia, SoftBums, Flip
Notes: All in twos or AI2s are like lined diaper covers with a snap in insert. I was not attracted to this system because I did not like the idea of having to buy the specific brand’s inserts for the diaper to work. But recently I saw an entire AI2 SoftBums diaper system at a thrift store for a dollar a piece in brand new condition! Someone snagged an entire system up for $20! It’s definitely worth it if you find a deal like that.
My Preference: I don’t have a preference with this system because I never used it, though it’s the closest to the system I use: covers + inserts. The only difference is that I buy other inserts that are not specific to the diaper cover brand. Some people do classify covers + inserts as an AI2 system like the Flip.
5. WOOL COVERS
Popular Brands: Woolybottoms hybrid soaker, Disana Woolen Overpants, Imse Vimse Wool Cover, Aristocrats Diaper Cover, Sustainablebabyish Knit Wool Cover, Etsy Wool Covers
Notes: Wool covers are outside covers and are used with any one of the “guts” below (like the fitteds). They are a more breathable natural fiber that reduced rashes and adjusts to baby’s body temperature in summer and winter. Wool holds three times it’s weight in urine before feeling wet and contains anti-bacterial lanolin which means it is self cleaning. You only have to wash when soiled with poo. Crazy, huh?! Wool covers usually do not come “lanolinized” and you need buy lanolin (and lanoln enriched eucalan) to soak and prep the wool covers. Wool diaper covers are classified as “longies” when they are pants style, “shorties” when they are a shorts length style and “covers” when they are regular diaper length.
My Preference: I have done a ton of reading on wool covers and saved a few super cute Etsy ones. I also love the idea of longies in the winter. I haven’t pulled the trigger on wool covers because the system we have now is working great, and we are on a budget (we are very selective about purchasing stuff we don’t absolutely need). I have been so, so close to buying these!
The 4 types of cloth diaper “guts” (all require a cover)
Popular Brands: Osocozy, Nikki’s Flats
Notes: Flats are large square pieces of fabric that can be folded in a variety of ways. This is your basic, old-school way of cloth diapering. You will need a clothes pin, or a Snappi (these are amazing!) to close them together as well as a cover or shell. There are a variety of fold types you can try as well.
My Preference: I haven’t used flats because, to me, there are much quicker, simpler and modern ways of cloth diapering BUT there are many moms who love them! If you are new to cloth diapering, I would advice buying a different system and trying these on the side because they do require a few extra steps that might not be for you (especially with a squirming baby or when you are exhausted and trying to figure out the fold!).
Popular Brands: Osocozy, Nikki’s Diapers, Green Mountain Diapers Prefolds
Notes: Prefolds are very similar to flats, except they are doubled up with an additional layer sewn down the middle. You need a diaper cover or pocket diaper over them. These are a more modern version of the old school flat. Prefolds can be folded in half (colored seam to colored seam for girls) or trifolded (for boys) as an extremely effective and cost effective insert with a diaper cover or pocket diaper. Like flats, you can also fold them up over your baby old-school-like (a very popular fold is the jelly roll fold and angel fold) and snap them together with a clothes pin or Snappi.
My Preference: Nicki’s GreatFit Prefolds – Bamboo 6 packs x4. I purchased the small size and even practiced my folds on a stuffed bunny before Mae was born. Haha. I had it down! But then she was born a little over 5 Ibs. and was too small for the small size prefolds (I needed to buy the newborn size)! Plus, I found the folding way too much work and fuss, especially with the lack of sleep! I switched to fitted diapers with a cover and actually came back to prefolds once Mae started eating solids. Though this time, I used the prefold as and insert and folded them in half. Mae is almost 10 months old and the small size fits perfectly into the Alva Baby cover. This turned out to be my favorite system.
Popular Brands: Cloth-eez Workhorse, sustainablebabyish, THX
Notes: Fitted diapers are like a disposable and even come with velcro tabs! Though you do need a cover. You can buy fitteds without snaps and use a Snappi to close them for a more adjustable fit or velcro (though velcro becomes less tacky with time and erodes).
My Preference: Cloth-eez Workhorse x20 newborn (orange stitching) and small (yellow stitching). I LOVED these and got tons of compliments with how they worked. Newborn poo is runny and becomes more solid when switching to solid food at about six months. Because of the runny poo, many moms battle “blowout” diapers and leaks, especially when there is poo + urine that makes it extra runny. (I know, kinda gross). During this stage, I tried ALL KINDS of cloth diapers, even the systems where I read moms saying they never had a blowout or leak! But ALL leaked at least a little. For me, fitteds NEVER leaked. They were the absolute best!!! These can be kind of pricey, so if this is a limiting factor for you, see the “shop discounts” section below. I used the newborn fitteds and the small fitteds, then I switched to prefolds as an insert + covers after Mae started eating solids.
Popular Brands: Naturally Natures, Blueberry Capri Inserts, Blueberry Bamboo Insert
Notes: Inserts are used with a cover or pocket diaper. Most cloth diaper companies who make covers or pockets, also make their own brand of inserts.
My Preference: Blueberry Capri Inserts. When looking at which type of insert to buy, I felt a little overwhelmed because there are so many choices. Blueberry Capri Inserts are very expensive but when looking through other blogs and testimonials, I found this brand to be the most absorbent. When Mae was 0-6 months, for night-time, I would use the Workhorse fitted + Blueberry Newborn Cover and a Blueberry Capri Insert for night-time. Now, after six months, I use an Alva Baby pocket diaper + Blueberry Capri Insert + Blueberry Bamboo Insert. Sometimes, at night, I exchange the Blueberry Capri Insert for a Naturally Natures insert (when I was lazy with laundry).
Types of materials/fabrics common to cloth diapers
When looking at inserts and other “guts” of cloth diapers, there are usually different fabric selections:
Microfiber is a synthetic material and a little scratchy to the touch. Microfiber is the fastest drying and least expensive type of cloth diaper material and it doesn’t need to be prepped when purchased. It is also the shortest lasting material of all the cloth diaper fabrics: about one year. Due to the type of material, microfiber also holds onto smells more than the others. Lastly and most importantly, when using this material for your baby, you must have a liner between the microfiber and your baby’s skin. Microfiber sucks out moister so well that it will dry out your little baby’s bum and create rashes.
Hemp is a natural fiber and holds two and a half times more liquid than microfiber. It is thinner, softer, extremely durable and becomes more soft and absorbent with each wash. Some inserts will be a hemp/cotton blend because hemp alone is a slow absorber, so most hemp inserts alone, are better underneath another insert or stuffed into a pocket diaper. Hemp inserts need to be prepped and washed a few times to remove the natural oils and increase their absorbency.
Bamboo is also a highly absorbable natural fiber that becomes more soft and absorbent after each wash. You may see rayon/bamboo mixes because rayon is actually made from bamboo and is extremely similar. Just like hemp, you have to thoroughly prep bamboo (at least three times) to remove the natural oils and increase the liner’s absorbency. I have read that natural fibers like hemp and bamboo start reaching their fullest potential of absorbency when they are washed about ten times, though washing them three times before use is the best way to start.
Cotton is another natural fiber and the most common type of cloth diaper material. It is comfortable, relatively low-cost and absorbent, though not as absorbent as bamboo or hemp. Regular cotton is grown using harsh chemicals, while organic cotton is grown without. So when choosing cotton based cloth diaper products, it is best to stick with organic cotton. Cotton is less absorbent than the other natural fibers used in cloth diapering but it is by far the most durable.
PREPPING (before use)
Every type of cloth diaper has instructions on how to pre-wash. It is best to stick with what the brand recommends. Also, remember to keep natural fibers separated from synthetics (at first). The natural fibers have oils on them that take a few washes to get out.
MY WASH ROUTINE
There are various ways people wash their cloth diapers. A washing routine depends on personal preference and your washing machine.
1. Dump ALL diapers in, including the diaper liner. RINSE CYCLE WARM + 1/2 PUMP DETERGENT.
2. HEAVY CYCLE HOT + 1 PUMP DETERGENT. (My washer does a HOT/COLD: a hot wash and cold rinse)
3. RINSE COLD (add an additional rinse)
Shopping discount may not be for everyone but we were on a strict budget, so it was appealing to me. If you keep your eyes peeled and stay patient while you are preparing for baby in your pregnancy, you can find the most amazing deals. I’ve seen entire diaper systems from birth to potty trained for less than one hundred dollars. Of course they were AFTER I had Mae! But, I bought mine off of eBay and clothdiapertrader.com.
The best place to start looking is Craigslist, Facebook marketplace and Facebook baby resale groups in your area (This is where I have seen many whole systems!) Join these right when you find out you are expecting. If you are looking for a specific type of diaper trading group, just go to Facebook and type in the diaper name and b/s/t. There are many! Also, check out the diaper company’s website. They usually have a gently used section.
B/S/T Fluff and Stuff – Facebook
Cloth Cycle – Facebook
Cloth Diaper Addiction Swap – Facebook
Cloth Diaper Trader
Cloth Diaper Swap and Sell – Facebook
Blueberry B/S/T – Facebook Groups
20 Workhorse Newborn (orange stitching) fitteds
6 Blueberry newborn size 1 capri
4 Thirsties newborn fitteds (with velcro)
3 Thirsties newborn covers (with velcro)
2 packs Blueberry Capri size one liners (for night-time)
SIX MONTHS PLUS:
8 Alva Baby Diaper Covers
24 Nikki’s Size Small prefolds
1 pack Blueberry Bamboo Inserts (for night-time)
3 Alva Baby pocket diapers (for night-time)
2 packs Blueberry capri size 2 liners (for night-time)
Etsy Wipes (style: no preference)
Diaper Liners – I add these on top of every diaper & didn’t buy a diaper sprayer.
2 Planetwise diaper pail liners
2 Planetwise travel wetbags
Allen’s Naturally detergent (this stuff is amazing!)
Cloth Diaper Safe Diaper Balm
Wire Shelf -used for hanging the covers, pail liner & travel wet bags
Clothes Pins -used for hanging the covers, pail liner & travel wet bags